Yoni massage allows you time to slowly explore your body in a more sensual way. It can help people who usually feel finished after one orgasm to achieve multiple orgasms, and it’s especially beneficial for people with vaginas who have never had an orgasm. Lie on your back in a comfortable place with a pillow under your hips, your knees up, and your feet on the ground. Have your favorite massage oil handy. I prefer coconut oil for its silky feel and sensual aroma. Constrict the back of your throat, inhale, and hear a whispering sound. Then exhale and release that sound again. Continue to take deep, slow, and audible breaths. This grounds you in your body and keeps you out of your head, and it helps to spread the orgasmic energy throughout your body. We don’t want the energy just in your clitoris. This type of deep breathing can help move that energy from the yoni to all parts of your body. Start with some coconut oil on the belly and gently massage there. The belly is an often overlooked area of the body but has many nerve endings. Massage the rib cage, between the breasts, and the lower abdomen. Once the body begins to respond, slowly circle the breasts before circling the areolae—don’t touch the nipples yet. Once the person’s body responds more, begin to tease the nipples by alternating between circles and light pinching, and between light, medium, and strong touches. Once you’ve warmed the body up with a breast massage and nipple stimulation, it’s time to move into the main yoni massage techniques. RELATED: What Is Tantric Massage? 7 Ways To Try It At Home Make sure to mix up all of the above and vacillate between stimulating the clitoris in various ways while also involving the G-spot and nipples. Yoni massage isn’t about having one orgasm. It’s about trying to feel more and more pleasure that will become waves of multiple orgasms throughout the massage. It can be done alone or done by a partner, either as an activity by itself or as a part of a sexual encounter involving other sexual acts like oral sex and intercourse. RELATED: A Guide To Tantric Masturbation: Techniques, Benefits & More When the body seems ready to explode, slow it down, pull away, and then build it back up again to create multiple waves of orgasms instead of just one. During the cool-down periods, place your hand on the heart to help keep the body grounded, connected, and feeling loving energy. Then build the arousal back up to the edge of orgasm once again, and then back off and slow it down. The longer the back and forth, the more pleasure will be experienced. RELATED: How To Give A Tantric Lingam Massage (The Multiple-Orgasm Technique For Men) It also helps to learn the basics of tantric sex, which itself is a marvelous spiritual sexual practice that can open a whole new world of pleasures. Isadora passed away on March 26, 2017. During her life, Psalm made a name for herself as a bold, outspoken sex, relationships, and trauma expert who lived to inspire the next generation of women. She demystified the ancient secrets of Tantra to make them accessible to the modern masses. Raised in a religious cult as a child, Isadora endured years of sexual trauma that eventually ignited her passion to teach sexual empowerment and modern sex ed. In 2007, Isadora traveled to India to immerse herself in the ancient teachings of Tantra to facilitate deep healing and discover her own path as a healer. For eight years, Isadora traveled to India to delve deeper into the path of Tantra and teach yoga to sex-trafficked women in the red light district of Calcutta, work that would eventually become part of a documentary titled Shakti. She studied the Śrī Vidyā tradition of Tantra under spiritual guru Sri Amritananda (Guruji) in Pradesh, India, and was initiated into Shakti Tantra Yoga. We will miss you, Psalm. You will certainly never be forgotten.
